Silsila

Sri Sri Mahavtar Babaji, Sri Sri Lahiri Mahasaya, Sri Sri Swami Yukteswar Giri and Sri Paramahansa Yogananda



All are alive
Time and space are dissolved

                                            

Ego

• An exaggerated sense of self importance.
• Mental phenomenon with which one identifies and cling.
• Feeling that everything is about me and for me.
• Feeling a need for every one to agree.
• Wishing to get credit for every thing.
• Simply an idea , an image that one has created in one's mind.
• Wanting always to be centre of attention
• No truly listening to others.
• Believing that one knows everything.
• No respct for others viewpoint.
• A narcissistic search for being loved and appreciated .                                                                                                                               

                          EGO  PUTS   A    LOCK    ON    THE     INTELLECT

Ten tips to boost your self - esteem

• Be open to admitting your faults. No harm in apologising
• Don't expect any thing from any body. Let giving and receiving flow spontaneously.
• Learn to forgive even your ardent enemy.
• Learn from your mistakes.
• Use feed back for self-improvement.
•  Have a purpose in life.
• Value yourself
• Try to understand others' view points
• Respect differences
• Believe that you are good but there is still scope to enhance your goodness.

Love & Relationship

The act of giving is not love. When you become receptive, that is what creates love, because in that receptiveness you stop doing and mind falls into stillness and formlessness.

The easiest way to destroy a relationship is to ask the other to be different from how she or he is. How can you call it love to ask the other to be different from they are? I 'm sure you would agree that is not love. If you start to ask the other to change, you had better end the relationship.

Alone

The word alone simply means that there is no longer a separation between you and me.
Alone is not about loneliness.
Alone is about the ending of separation.
Alone means that there ceases to be a distinction between mine and yours.
There may be a distinction between your body and my body on the physical level, but on an energy level  there is oneness  - alone is all one.

Faith And Belief

Faith is personal. Belief is social. So you need not have belief. Have faith instead and have it for yourself only. Dont' try to convince anyone else of it. If you have faith, you will never try to convince anyone of it. However if you believe in something, you will get angry if others remain unconvinced by you.

Mentacalm

When the mind has been brought to rest, then the Self stands in its own nature.
All mental disturbances derive from the ego's hopes, fears,loves, hates, desires,aversions, anxieties and insecurities.

So Self cannot be isolated and discovered until these distorting influences have been put to rest.

Putting them to rest requires that one traces them to their roots, understands them and ceases to fear them